In Loving Memory of Duane E. Meade

A Life of Faith, Service, and Hard Work

With a heavy heart, I share this message. Our hearts are heavy today as we announce the death of Duane E. Meade, age 88, who passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 22, 2025, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Born on March 22, 1937, northeast of Calumet, Duane lived a life defined by faith, family, and service to his community.

Duane grew up near Calumet, attending Corner Door School through the eighth grade before graduating from Calumet High School. Even as a young man, he demonstrated responsibility and dedication, driving the school bus while still a student. Raised on a hardworking family farm, Duane developed a strong work ethic that became the cornerstone of his life.After high school, Duane worked for horse trainers such as Babe Jones and Dale Robertson, before marrying the love of his life, Roxie Paulk, on November 30, 1957, at the First Christian Church in Calumet. Together, they built a home in the Calumet area and raised three daughters, creating a legacy of love and devotion that has endured for nearly 68 years.

Throughout his life, Duane held many occupations—working for the Rock Island Railroad, on oil rigs for Vierson & Cochran Drilling Co., and later becoming self-employed. Yet no matter his profession, farming remained his passion. He raised cattle, pigs, and horses, drilled water wells with Roxie, and tended to the land he cherished.Duane’s commitment to service extended beyond his family and farm. He served as volunteer fire chief and assistant fire chief, dedicated nearly 20 years to the Calumet School Board, and contributed to the Geary Nursing Home Board. He was also a proud member of the El Reno Wranglers and a long-time member of the Calumet First Christian Church, where he was baptized, served as a deacon, and sat on the board.

Known as a jack of all trades, Duane enjoyed building barns, houses, and cabinets. He loved spending time at the lake, water-skiing, and attending men’s retreats. His talents, generosity, and faith touched countless lives.Duane is survived by his beloved wife Roxie, his three daughters, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, great-great grandson, brothers, and a large extended family. He was preceded in death by his parents, grandparents, in-laws, and other cherished relatives.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Calumet Volunteer Fire Department in Duane’s memory.

Rest in peace, Duane E. Meade. Your life was a blessing, your service an inspiration, and your memory will remain forever in our hearts.

Heartfelt Condolences for Rick Barnard

Honoring a Life of Music, Mentorship, and Kindness

With a heavy heart, I share this message. Our hearts are heavy today as we announce the death of Rick Barnard, beloved guitar teacher at Crawford International Lonehill. Rick’s passing has left a profound void in the lives of his students, colleagues, friends, and family. He was not only an exceptional musician but also a gentle, patient, and inspiring mentor whose influence will be remembered for generations.

Rick dedicated his life to sharing the gift of music, and in doing so, he touched countless lives. His classroom was more than a place of learning—it was a space where creativity flourished, confidence grew, and students discovered the joy of expressing themselves through music. His patience and encouragement made him a trusted guide, and his kindness left an indelible mark on everyone he taught.

Beyond his role as a teacher, Rick was a friend, a supporter, and a source of inspiration. He carried himself with humility and grace, always willing to give of his time and talent to uplift others. His legacy is not only in the notes he played but in the lives he shaped, the dreams he nurtured, and the love he shared so freely.We extend our deepest condolences to Rick’s family and loved ones during this difficult time. May they find comfort in the cherished memories of his laughter, his music, and his unwavering dedication to those around him.

Though Rick is no longer with us, his spirit will live on in the melodies he taught, the joy he inspired, and the community he helped build.

Rest in peace, Rick Barnard. Your music was a gift, your mentorship a blessing, and your memory will remain forever in our hearts.

In Loving Memory of Ophelia Grandison Martin

A Heart of Gold, Forever Remembered

Our hearts are heavy today as we share the heartbreaking news of the death of our beloved sister and mother, Ophelia Grandison Martin, who passed away unexpectedly. Her warm spirit, kindness, and love touched everyone she met, and her sudden passing has left a tremendous void in the lives of her family, friends, and community.

To know Ophelia was to love her. Affectionately known as “Phee Phee”, she was one of the sweetest, most caring, and selfless people you could ever meet. Whenever she walked into a room, she brought warmth, light, and joy. She was a strong woman devoted to her family and friends, always willing to help anyone in need. If someone asked, she found a way. Her heart was truly made of gold, and her generosity and compassion will never be forgotten. Ophelia’s passing is not only a personal loss to her family but also a collective loss to the community that cherished her. She touched countless lives with her kindness and left behind a legacy of love, strength, and faith. Her memory will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her, reminding us all of the importance of compassion and selflessness.

As her family prepares to honor her life and lay her to rest, they are facing the emotional and financial challenges that come with such a sudden loss. A GoFundMe has been established to help cover funeral expenses and provide her with the dignified farewell she deserves. Any amount, no matter how small, will help ease this burden and allow her loved ones to focus on celebrating her remarkable life.

We extend our deepest gratitude for the love, prayers, and generosity shown during this difficult time. Your support means more than words can express.

Rest in peace, Ophelia Grandison Martin. Your life was a blessing, your heart was pure, and your memory will remain forever in our hearts.